There is nothing more harmful in life than fostering and nursing an old hurt. People don’t always come through. Don’t be so hard on them, some times you don’t come through for people either. Remember that people (including yourself) are still human. They have the capacity to be negligent during a time where they are needed by others, but so do you. Don’t ever forget that most people don’t usually intend on hurting you. They just do sometimes.
That’s all some people know. Remember that some people have only known hurt and abuse in their lives. For some, it is all that has been modelled to them. Hurt people hurt people. When I am hurt, I have a great capacity to hurt others. Lay that desire down. It will get you nowhere. There is more to life then just holding offense. Letting go may just be one of the most liberating things you can do with a hurt. It doesn’t let them off, nor does it mean that you have to trust them. Forgiveness and Trust are two separate things. But it does mean that you can forgive them and truly hope the best for their lives.
Let it go. There is much more to life then what we are currently facing.